I need to admit right here that I was, until fairly recently, notorious for making men jump through hoops for me. Not because I wanted them to win me over. Nope, not even close. I made men start doing this after I decided I wasn’t into them, because I wanted proof that they would fail at the things that are important to me, and that gave me permission to leave.
Engineer by nature and by trade. Sharer of wisdom. Enjoys coffee, wine, and critical thinking.